On Wednesday, October 18, 2023, the Office of Student Development and the LGBT History Month Committee worked together to present another event in the story space series that focused on LGBTQ+ stories in Campus Center Meeting Room 5. In every Story Space event, each participant is given a slip to write their name on. Every time a name gets pulled, that participant may share a story based on the theme for up to seven minutes. Participants could also choose to just listen if they were unwilling to share. Snacks were also provided.

The gathering for the LGBTQ Voices event was small but intimate. Parth Thakkar, coordinator of Student Life programming, started the event by sharing his first introduction to trans people after he moved to the United States. He explained that when he lived in India he would notice individuals wearing saris, which are typically viewed as women’s clothing. He never understood who they were until he came to the US and learned the label transgender. He stated, “That was something that was never talked about or once mentioned while living in India.” These labels were unknown to him coming from a largely conservative culture.

He went on to discuss how the taboo of queer people, particularly trans individuals, makes it difficult for them to find work and have a livelihood in India. Thakkar expressed his frustration, explaining how the culture is slowly moving forward, but life for trans people is still difficult. He said, “They’re essentially begging for money just to get by and it’s really really upsetting.”

After discussing this rather dark and heavy topic, student Declan spoke about his coming out experience. He described how supportive his family and friends were, especially his friend Mia, who accompanied him to the event. He also mentioned, “My friend had a coming out party for me which was really fun!”

Story Spaces concluded with another student, Autumn, sharing their recent experiences as they came to the realization that they are trans. They explore the challenges they face at home, but also the pride and joy that they feel now that they better understand who they are. They are excited to be themselves, to tell people, and to begin their medical transition.

The next Story Space will be on Wednesday, November 8 in the Multicultural Center and centered around sharing what people are most thankful for this holiday season. For more events hosted by Student Development, check Ospreyhub.